As anyone who has been TTC-ing for a while will know, one of the most annoying things people can say is 'just relax and stop thinking about it'! AAaarrrgggh!!! You want to scream 'oh sorry, why hadn't I thought of that?! Someone should tell medical science that conception is all in the mind'.
The latest pearl of advice came from my friend who fell pregnant while on the pill. I am happy for her, and she had her own problems with a traumatic birth, but she has no idea what it is like to 'try' for a baby. I know she is only trying to say helpful things, and so is everyone else who offers their twopence worth, but I wish they wouldn't.
Unless someone knows where my 'off' switch is there is no way I am going to be able to just forget about TTC, even if I wanted to. I am that stage in my cycle where I am hoping any small twinge could be a sign of my BFP and preparing myself for the crash when it's not.
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